Wednesday, October 15, 2008

I'M GETTING REAL AND LETTING GO!

Okay, from here on out I am going to use this as my venting page. I have heard as females we need like five hugs a day, and to use up approx. 10,000 words. Well, I know that I am nowhere close to that by days end. So this is my new vent page, gossip page, what have you. I plan on letting loose. This page will not be for me to walk around to my friends and say... Hey... check this out... My blog is at... Absolutely not! This is for me and my followers and friends I make along the way I guess. I love meeting new people, but most of all, I love meeting people who still have a little compassion and sunshine in their souls.
I decided yesterday that I would start this blog as a way to release pent up emotions w/out burdening people with my heartaches or woes. Don't get me wrong, I have some great friends that are there for me... but I sure don't want to burden them or seem like a whiner all the time.
So... I have created my Drama blog. Everyday I will use this to vent about the crap that is happening in my office, life, with my co-workers, etc.
I hate confrontation, but unfortunately people mistake my kindness for weakness all too much. Sometimes confrontation is inevitable. I still hate it and avoid it at all costs. The problem with that? It can lead to gossip as a means of venting. The flip side to all this is that sometimes, no matter how right you are or justified... you still can't confront someone for various reasons. So again... MY VENTING BLOG is born! Maybe I will create a following... maybe like a soap opera. Ha! Ha!
I can see it now...
"STEPHANIE'S WORLD... these are the days of her life!!!" Well, since I have to return to work... I will post my first official "venting" blog here a little later! I can't wait! I will however try to stay on one topic at a time for my own sanity. We shall see... I think I will also end each blog/ day with a special thought...
This is my thought/ inspirational phrase for the day... my favorite...

"Smile at EVERYONE you meet, smiles are contagious. You never know, just when you need it the most, that smile just might make it's way back around to you."

1 comment:

Nessa said...

I too really hate confrontation. I also agree that this quirk can make one very prone to gossip. Oh well! I love that you have a place to let loose and speak your mind! It's very liberating!